One of the main iconic representations of a wedding is the wedding cake.  Aside from the bridal gown, nothing will be more anticipated, examined, and discussed at your wedding than the cake.  This makes the choice of cake particularly important.  However, to some people, the idea of a traditional wedding cake is simply not appealing.  If you are one of those folks, these ideas are just for you!

UNIQUE FLAVORS – If the traditional flavors of cake – chocolate, white cake, or some variation thereof – do not appeal to you, or if you have a particular favorite flavor of cake, you can have a cake custom made in that flavor.  Some examples of flavors are carrot cake, jello cakes, strawberry shortcake.  I will warn you, it will very likely be more difficult to find a vendor that can accommodate you.  However, if the extra effort is worth it to you, you can have a cake that is your very favorite flavor!

UNIQUE SHAPES AND THEMES – The idea of having wedding cakes custom-made to fit something special about the life of the bride and groom has gained popularity in recent years.  In fact, there is even a reality television show on The Food Network called “Ace of Cakes” about a bakery (Charm City Cakes in Baltimore, MD) that makes extreme custom wedding cakes.  These cakes can focus on anything in the couple’s life – a place that is important to them, a shared passion, or even a visual representation of the couple themselves.

CUPCAKE TOWERS – For less formal events, many couples choose to have a cupcake tower rather than a traditional wedding cake.  Cupcake holders are available which are very lovely and detailed, so the idea is not entirely informal.  Also, many couples like the fact that, with a cupcake tower, they can have a wide variety of flavors available rather than just a few.

DECORATING WITH REAL OBJECTS – Decorating with real objects is a great option in a couple of different instances.  First, if you are on a tight budget and can’t afford a traditional wedding cake at traditional wedding cake prices, a lovely alternative is to purchase several small plain white frosted cakes, arrange them in an artistic way, and surround them with flowers or beautiful stones or any other kind of objects that represent the theme of your wedding.  Second, if your wedding theme is centered around a particular type of flower, such as roses, what could be more appropriate than a wedding cake adorned with that flower?

CAKE ALTERNATIVES – Lastly, if cake in any shape, form, or flavor is really just not to your taste, you can always have a cake alternative.  Many couples choose to serve pie, brownies, cheesecake, donuts, or cannoli instead of the traditional wedding cake.  It is entirely up to you and your fiance’s tastes and preferences.

There is nothing written in stone about what a wedding cake must be like.  This is your wedding - the only important thing is that you love it.  If you love your cake, you’ll be happy with it, and it will create a beautiful centerpiece for your reception – and for your memories of the day.