Throwing rice at weddings is one of the most iconic parts of the ceremony – the ideas of weddings and throwing rice are almost inextricably intertwined.  However, if you are looking for something different, there are lots of alternatives. Although, I will note, that the urban legend about rice exploding in bird’s stomachs is just that – an urban legend.  So hopefully, if throwing rice is what you wanted, you won’t abandon the idea based on that.  However, you might not want to be continually explaining the lack of danger to guests throughout the reception, so you still may want to choose an alternative.

THROWING FLOWER PETALS – Many people throw rose petals, which is gorgeous, but if roses don’t fit in with the theme or budget of your ceremony, the petals of any kind of flower would work well.  Speak with a florist to determine which flowers fit within your budget and would work well for this purpose.

RELEASING BUTTERFLIES – This is a gorgeous and colorful alternative to rice throwing.  Each guest is given a small box or envelope that contains a live butterfly.  As the couple walks through, the guests open their boxes and a colorful swarm of live butterflies take flight.   It’s certainly a great photo op!

BLOWING BUBBLES – Another visually appealing alternative to throwing rice is blowing bubbles.  Each guest is given a small bottle with bubble liquid inside and the circular plastic ring embedded in the cap.  Not only is it aesthetically pleasing while all the guests are blowing the bubbles, but it also leaves each guest with a keepsake to take home from your wedding.

SPARKLERS – If your wedding is at night and if zoning permits, you can have each guest holding a lit sparkler.  This is a very powerful visual statement.

CONFETTI – This is a colorful option.  The great thing about confetti is that if it is not available for purchase in the color that you want, you can always make it yourself from colored paper with fun shaped confetti punchers which are available at craft stores.

RINGING BELLS – Although it will clearly bring some “It’s a Wonderful Life” inspired comments of “Every time a bell rings, an angel gets its wings,” this is a great rice-throwing alternative, particularly if you have a bell-themed wedding.  It also works well for venues that don’t allow throwing of any objects on the grounds.

STREAMERS – This is similar to the confetti option, but it creates an entirely different visual look.  The long, curling streams of colored paper create a strong visual that would look fantastic in photos.

BALLOONS – Releasing balloons is yet another visually powerful statement.  A fun twist on this idea is to have your guests write good wishes for you on their balloons before releasing them.

DOVES – The downside to releasing a pair of doves as the couple exits is that each guest does not get to participate, but it is a beautiful and symbolic gesture.

These are some great alternatives to rice-throwing, but keep in mind – anything that can be thrown, basically, can be used.  So the only limit is your imagination!

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